Good Guys and Jerks

here are some of the mistakes that most nice guys make:

- loses confidence easily to other men[competition].

- worships girls like gods.

- has no life, he fantasizes of having a girlfriend all the time.

- agrees with everything she says.

- gets too emotionally attached to girls. girls are not born for your sake!

- thinks that girls are made of glass: any form of vulgarity will break them.

- so desperate to please the girl, that they lose their sense of identity.

- easily stepped over like a door mat.

- nice guys do not like themselves. girls find it suffocating, obsessive, clinging.

- always gives in to the girls.

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and here are some tips as well:

- if you want girls to like you, the first step you have to do is to like yourself. if you don't even like yourself, it's impossible for others to like you as well. when you start to like yourself, you will naturally develop the self confidence you need.

- you don't have to be an asshole just to attract the girls. learn how to strike the balance between being a nice guy and a jerk.

- don't wait till the girl of ur dreams appear, then you start practicing on how to talk with girls. talk to any girl, without being a moron. the worst thing that could happen is that she'll walk off. think of it as her lost, not yours.

- don't treat a girl TOO nicely. learn when to say 'no' and not to give in to her. this way, you're earning her respect for you as a MAN. hey, god gave you balls for some reason right?

i guess that should be enough for now.